
When a Friend Isn’t Who You Thought They’d Be
Rather than focusing on one instance where a friend made a mistake, Nicole Andreoli, PhD, psychologist at Pathways Psychological Services and author, says consider how you consistently feel after spending time with them. She says some red flags to look out for include:If they dismiss your feelings, cross boundaries after you’ve expressed them, or reach out only when they need you. “Another important marker is how the person handles ruptures in the friendship, or hearing that you feel hurt,” Dr. Andreoli tells MyLifetime. “Healthy friendships can withstand difficult conversations, and good friends can apologize and take ownership for wrongdoing.”










